Kenneth Chelius
Kenneth was born on July 27, 1954, in North Tonawanda, New York, to Mildred Terry Chelius and Urban Chelius, both of whom preceded him in death. He was also preceded in death by his beloved wife, Sharon Williams Chelius; his sisters Irene and Nancy; and his brother David.
He is survived by his siblings Daniel Chelius, Leonard Chelius, and Bonnie Chelius; his children Jamie Chelius, Kendra Chelius Martinez and her husband Angel, Lynda Samuels McCormack and her husband Scott, and Shawn Samuels; and his grandchildren Arson and spouse Gray, Lincoln, Draven, and Joshua.
Ken attended Bolivar Central School in Bolivar, New York, and later graduated from Belmont Vocational School in Belmont, New York, in 1973, earning a degree in electrical and architectural drafting. He was raised in the Lutheran faith.
Ken enjoyed roller skating, dancing, watching movies, singing karaoke, playing cards and board games, video games, bowling, and—most of all—spending time with friends and family.
He will be remembered for his love of fun, connection, and the joy he found in simply being with the people he cared about.
A Celebration of Life for Ken and Sharon is forthcoming. If you’d like details once they’re available, please email Lynda_Samuels@outlook.com
Ken,
You were a man of few words, but your actions spoke volumes. Your love and devotion to Momma were recognized without question and appreciated more than you could ever know. I am very aware of how lucky Shawn and I were to have you as our stepdad. We certainly would’ve been hard-pressed to find better. You will be greatly missed, but we take comfort in knowing you’ve rejoined Momma and can dance and sing and enjoy each other’s company again without the restrictions this life had imposed on you both the last few years. I can picture the two of you slow dancing your way through the pearly gates to When a Man Lovs a Woman, and it’s everything you both deserve.
Love always.
Lynda kay
Ken,
The first night I met you (when you came over for dinner) I made sure to wear a tie because something inside told me you were “the one” for Mom…and I was right. For 40+ years you graced Lynda Kay and I with your love, kindness, and, most of all, your devotion to our Mom. I will always remember that night you cracked up into tears over playing “Crash Bandicoot”…you had me in tears of laughter with you. You were always there to lend a hand and never asked for anything in return. Even though you were a man of few words you always seemed to keep us smiling and laughing. Just know you were incredibly loved and cherished and will be missed by so many. Be sure sure to teach everyone up there your special “Mountain Music” dance…and make sure no one “steps in your fishing hole”…that one’s a classic. Thank you, Ken, for filling my life with joy, compassion, and kindness. Forever will miss you…much love.
My sincerest condolences to my best friend Ken’s family. For 41 years we did lots together and I miss him always. Sadness aches my heart at his passing ,so young and such a good friend, I will miss him sorely. May God keep him and his wife Sharon close together for eternity.
Ken,
You didn’t much to say, but your actions spoke of a man possessing quiet dignity and kindness. I’m so sorry that life didn’t treat you well in the last few years, but now you are reunited with your beloved Sharon and can dance and sing your heart out in heaven with her. I will always remember the joy and exuberance you had every time you sang the Mountain Music song. We miss you so much, Ken. Rest in peace.