Linda “Lulu” Self

Linda “Lulu” Self, 78, a Texas native and resident of Pearland Texas, reunited with her heavenly family on October 12, 2022.

Lulu was an angel on earth that guided her family, the one that gave her heart & soul to all that needed, the one that could always put a smile on your face, and the one that cared for all of her loved ones with so much love and passion. On October 12th Lulu’s journey lead her to heaven where she has taken on the new role of guardian angel for her loving & devoted husband of 30 years, Mike Self; her daughter Suzette with her husband Dave Lapierre; her eldest son Barney Stagner JR and his wife Dena; her youngest son Steve Stagner; the 4 loves of her life grandchildren, Courtney Stagner, Austin Stagner, Hailey Stagner, Izzie Stagner; her lil sister Jessica James; her oldest brother Allan James and his wife Vickie, her youngest brother Dennis James, and in addition all other persons that had ever been the recipient of Lulu’s unconditional love.

Lulu will remain in our hearts for eternity.

In lieu of flowers please make donations to the National ALS Society and/or Wounded Warrior Project


  1. Rest in Peace LuLu you were a Blessing from God and you touched us all, you will be forever missing but we will keep you in our Hearts Always, Love you
    Praying for the entire Family, and sending our love through these trying times, God Bless you All!
    Sue, Peggy, Kelli, BJ and Olivia

    Peggy Peel
  2. Linda will forever be in our hearts! Her beautiful laugh always brought the room incredible JoY and her stories of life, kept us forever curious! Linda will be dearly missed.

    Until we see you all next, we are keeping you close to our hearts and in our prayers!

    The Faught Family- Damon, Teresa, Payton & Logan
    (Milton & Barbara Holloway’s daughter Teresa)

    Teresa Faught
  3. Linda was a bright spot in this world. She leaves a legacy of compassion, love and laughter. Whatever one’s circumstance, the world was a little brighter after being with Linda. She lived her faith. Her light will continue to shine in the lives of so many. She was a great cousin and a wonderful human being. She will be deeply missed.

    LaVada Glass-Judd
  4. I’ll miss you a lot Lulu. Your warm smile and laugh always filled every room and was always so fun to be around. You were the heart and soul of our family. I hope you knew how you effected everyone around you always for the better. I’ll miss you so much but I know you’re with Jesus in paradise. I love you always. -Izzie

    Izzie Stagner
  5. Thank you Linda for being a second mom to me growing up. Thank you for your generosity and your wisdom. You will be missed but you’re always in my heart. Love you

    Erik Johnson
  6. My sincerest condolences to Barney, Suzette and Steve and family. I am truly sorry for the sudden loss of your Mom. May she rest in peace and be kept alive and smiling in your hearts.

    Beth McCaughey Murray
  7. So many memories. How they fill my sole! Linda had a special gift that could turn most any event into a time if fun and good will. As we all witnessed for example, she could turn Uncle Iris’ crudeness into “a behavior of interest”–she had never heard such “interesting” language and stories. Such fun and good will seemed to follow Linda whereever she went. Her devotion to her husban Mike, and all of her children are surely exemplary in all of our family. I will miss her dearly. Until we meet again, goodbye for a little while. Love, Milton

    Milton L Holloway

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