Robert L. Collake Jr.
Robert L. Collake Jr.
February 17, 1944 – August 9, 2025
Robert L. Collake Jr. passed away peacefully on August 9, 2025, at the age of 81.
He is lovingly survived by his partner of 39 years, Joaquin Romero Jr., and their devoted Miniature Schnauzer, Bianca.
He also leaves behind his beloved sisters Alice Collins, Josephine Frost, and Faye Kelley, as well as many nephews, nieces, great-nephews, and great-nieces. His family included the Frost, Clay, and Kelley families, along with his treasured “favorites” Kami K. Smith, Niles Kelley, and, by marriage, Adolfo Granados, Jessica G. Hernandez, and Anexa Rodriguez.
Robert was preceded in death by his parents, Robert L. Collake Sr. and Sarah F. Collake; his sisters Mildred Clay, Betty Collake, and Juanita C. Oliver; and his brother-in-law James T. Oliver.
Born in Sweetwater, Tennessee, Robert’s life journey took him to Georgia, Florida, California, and even Europe, before he ultimately settled in Houston, Texas, where he built his career and his home. He lived an extraordinary and adventurous life-playing baseball in high school and later softball in Houston’s Montrose Softball League. After graduating from Central High School in Chattanooga, Tennessee, Robert worked at DuPont Chemical, served 30 years at St. Luke’s Hospital, and spent 11 years at Park Plaza Hospital.
Known for his kindness, humor, and hospitality, Robert loved socializing, entertaining at home, and embarking on road trips that often turned into memorable adventures. Upon retiring, he embraced a quieter life-watching TV, tending to his garden, enjoying the beauty of Texas bluebonnets and wildflowers, and sharing each day with Joaquin and their dogs.
For 39 years, Robert and Joaquin built a life full of love, laughter, and countless journeys- especially to Chattanooga, where family and memories awaited. His final trip home in 2024 was one of his greatest joys, knowing it might be his farewell visit to those he cherished most.
Robert was a gentle soul and a loving partner whose quiet strength and generous heart left a lasting mark on everyone he met. He spoke often of his sisters and treasured every visit. Though his time with us feels far too short, his love, warmth, and unwavering kindness will forever remain in our hearts.
We will miss him deeply, but will carry forward the joy and love he so freely gave.
A memorial service for Robert will be held at Bering Memorial Church, 1440 Harold Street, Houston, TX, 77006 on Friday, September 5 at 11 am. (Parking is in the rear of the building on Hawthorne Street) For those unable to attend in person, the service will be livestreamed at www.beringchurch.org (click “worship” on the top right of the screen)
The time I spent with Robert will forever shape the person I’ve become. His unwavering love and gentle spirit were my anchor, always grounding me in ways words can scarcely express. I could not have asked for a better partner—one who shared every part of my life, my joys, my struggles, my dreams, and my fears. It was out of my deep love and respect for Robert, as he was a private person, that we chose to keep our bond sacred and shared only with those closest to us. I’ve always honored his wishes, as he did mine, with the utmost integrity.
Through every chapter of my life, Robert was there—steadfast, supportive, and always loving. And in return, I stood by him through his own journey, holding him close, offering comfort and strength. In his final hours, I cradled him in my arms, letting him rest his head on my shoulder, the same way he had done for me countless times before.
I will love you, Robert, not just in this lifetime, but in every lifetime that follows. Your love will continue to guide me, and your memory will forever be a part of my heart.
Our condolences John and Maria!
My dear Rocky, so sorry for the loss of Robert. Whenever I run into him, he always had a smile and was very friendly. May he be in your heart and memories for the rest of your life.
My Thoughts And Prayers 🙏 Are With You At This Time Difficult Time So Sorry For Your Loss Joaquin And Family I Will Keep Y’all in My Prayers 🙏
Our deepest sympathy will keep Robert in our hearts he will be missed my thoughts are with you during this difficult time
Ron & Albert
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Dear Rocky, I am saddened to hear about Robert. May you find peace in knowing his suffering is over, he’s gone home to heaven, but He’ll always be with You!
Love & God bless,
Paul
Hey Rocky
I can’t even imagine the pain you’re going through right now, but I just want you to know I’m here for you. Losing someone so special is so hard, and my heart aches for you. If you need someone to talk to, sit in silence with, or just a shoulder to lean on, I’m just a call away. Take things one step at a time, and please take care of yourself. You’re in my thoughts during this incredibly tough time.
With love and support,
Alberto and Tina
I don’t even know where to start … but all I’ve ever known in my life is Uncle Rob , always so caring and loving with me , as a matter of fact I cannot remember a single bad memory or time with him , he always made me laugh and I’m not even sure if it was intentional or if that was his quirky personality but either way it was one of my favorite things about him … that and sports we always had sports in common. I will miss him so much … I just hope he knew how much he was loved and appreciated … I Love you Uncle Rob
One of the most agreeable and kindest persons I know. His opinions and wisdom were reflected always in the suggestions, convictions and generosity he displayed. He will be remembered fondly and his presence will be felt in our community for a long time.
Im so sorry for your loss ive known both of you for many years my heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow johnnie parsons
I’m so sorry for your loss Rocky you and Robert had a great life together while 39 years. That’s absolutely amazing so anytime you need to talk or wanna meet just let me know I feel for you. What a great life you had. Take care of yourself love you both always Alan
I lost a piece of my heart when my brother Bobby (as I have always called him since I was little) passed. He was always there for me, Kami & Niles (my kids). Bobby & I had a special bond as family & friends. I will cherish his visit last year when he & Rocky came home. He really enjoyed seeing his family and spending time with all of us. Bobby & I had so many special memories over the years we even lived together one time in Atlanta. I’m thankful for the time we had & didn’t want to lose him but kowing he is with our family in Heaven & not suffering any more does help. Bobby was the best brother a sister could have had. Bobby love you so much & you will always be in my heart!!!
I grew up with Bobby in Chattanooga.
He was one of my best buddies growing up.
An exceptional athlete. He was so naturally gifted. Wasn’t a sport that he played that he played that he didn’t excel in.
My condolences to his family and friends.
Rest in peace my friend.
my deepest this is Brother. I love you very much.