Philomena (Russo) Wilder

Philomena (Russo) Wilder, 90, a twenty-five-year resident of League City, Texas passed away August 31, 2020. She was born September 24, 1929 in Barrington, Rhode Island to parents Joseph A. Russo and Maria Carrillo Russo. She was previously a resident of Galveston, Texas from the early 1930’s until 1995. She attended Ursuline Academy and graduated from Ball High School and was a member of St. Patrick’s Catholic Church and also St. Peter’s Catholic Church while living in Galveston.
Philomena’s primary objective in life was providing all that she could for her family and to that end she was extremely successful. She enjoyed preparing Italian dishes and was well known as an excellent cook regardless of the cuisine. Philomena attended hundreds of school and sporting events in support of her children’s activities and always volunteered when needed. In her later years she enjoyed spending weekends with her sisters, cooking and playing various card and board games. She was the best mom a family could ask for.

Philomena was preceded by her husband of 29 years, Raymond Eugene Wilder, and her parents. She is also preceded by her sisters, Jeannie Macaluso, Emily Garcia, and Ida Crutchfield; and brothers, Thomas Russo, Vincent Russo, and Joseph Russo and her step son Raymond E. Wilder Jr. She is survived by her daughters Pamela Ann Wilder, and Kimberly Ann Swope and husband Brett; sons, Rodney Eugene Wilder and wife Paula, and Randall Eugene Wilder; sister, Margaret Marinelli; brother John Russo and wife Viva; grandchildren, Annie Wilder, Elizabeth (Patrick) Shanley, Reid (Lucy) Wilder,
Blake Wilder, Catherine Wilder, Corey Wilder (Kelly), Kelli Wilder, Katrina Swope, and Cale Swope; and five great grandchildren, Reid, Madeleine, Evangelina, Max, and Coral.

The family would like to thank the staff at Ashton Parke Care Center, especially Samantha James, for the compassionate care and kindness shown to Philomena during her time there. Visitation open to all will be held from 5 p.m.-7 p.m. on Friday, September 4, 2020 at Crowder Funeral Home in Dickinson, Texas. Private Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, September 5, 2020 at Crowder Funeral Home Chapel in Dickinson for immediate family only with interment following at Mt. Olivet Catholic Cemetery in Dickinson.
Honored to serve as pallbearers are Rodney Wilder, Randall Wilder, Corey Wilder, Blake Wilder, Cale Swope, and Brett Swope. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association or the charity of your choice.

15 comments

  1. To the Wilder family: we were so sorry to learn the loss of your mother and grandmother. We know you will cherish good memories of her. You are in our thoughts.

    Travis and Denise McDonald
  2. To the Wilder Family I LOVE her as she was my own mother or grandmother. Y’all had a special woman in yalls life and she will be highly missed . I want to give my condolences to the family and will keep you all in my prayers. Keep your memories close and cherish them …

    Samantha James
  3. I hope the memories of her love for you will bring you comfort during this time of letting go.

    Cori Ann Escamilla
  4. To wonderful CoHeart Pam Wilder and family…may the Love of God and His divine peace give you strength and comfort during this time. May the days, weeks, months and years to come be filled with the sweet memories of your Mother. May her legacy be carried on through her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and generations to come. You all have my deepest sympathies and prayers.

    Tony Gillie
  5. To My Co-worker Pam Wilder and Family. My Thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time. Pam I never met your Mom but thru you I felt like I have known her for a long time. She was a very strong women and she fought a good fight!! Cherish the Memories and God Bless You and the Family!!

    Angie Rochon
  6. My Pamella….my hero has finished her fight. She was truly a Blessed woman. My prayer is that the Sweet Memories created will carry each of you through this difficult time.

    Shirley Griffin
  7. To Pam my friend and cohort, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I thank God for your mom and the way she blessed so many people with her love and support. To see her picture, I see her in you not just in resemblance but in the love you give to Corey and we you cohort. May we share with you the love you give to us. Much love.

    Carlton Lewis Riley
  8. Dear Philomena, We shared the best years that we spent at Ursuline Academy, I finished in l948. and John finished at Ball Hi in 1946. I have so many happy memories and I’m sure you did also. John Ringer and I celebrated 70 years of marriage on July 8th 2020. Save us a seat, we will see you later………

    Lou Ringer
  9. Pam, my dear friend, you and your family are in my prayers. Your mother was truly blessed by her loving family.

    Drew King
  10. Your loss saddens our hearts, and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Tina Sedgwick Dambra
  11. Pam Y,
    Words can’t really express the feelings of loss you have for your mom and your good friend. She was a beautiful lady and I really enjoyed all the stories you told me about her. May you and your family gain strength and comfort from our heavenly father, for he sustains us in times of sorrow. I thank you for supporting me and you know I’m always here for you.
    Ken-X.

    Ken Monday
  12. Dear Wilder Family,
    I love you all.I have fond memories of Aunt Phil and Uncle Ray. I loved visiting you all, especially when I was growing up; Aunt Phil was always happy, visiting, fixing dessert, and coffee when my family came for visits. She brought out games and color books to enjoy. Uncle Ray would get the squirrel out sometimes, so we could see and pet it. At holidays, Aunt Phil remember me with hugs, candy, or gifts. I remember one year getting rabbit fur ear muffs and mittens on Christmas from her; I thought that was so great! I will hold her dear to my heart and all the wonder family memories and events that we all shared. I am truly sadden by her loss, but I celebrate her life and her trip home to heaven where she will be welcomed by her husband, parents, brothers and sisters, and friends who have gone before her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Cherish and dwell in your good memories of you Mom; it will keep her close to your heart and help you heal from your loss. Good bless.

    Donna, Jim, Haleigh, and Samuel Svoboda
  13. I found her to be truly one of the best. Caring, fun-loving, and family oriented. Never in my experience have I seen a family member always in a bright disposition. Of all the “Greatest Generation Family Member’s” she was my favorite to converse with! When Donna told me the aunts would be at Joe’s Sunday it was your mother I first thought of!
    Fondness in my heart

    J. Svoboda

    Jimmy
  14. To Pam, My amazing wonderful friend, my heart breaks for your you and your family. I remember the first time I met your mother . It was while visiting you in Galveston, and she was standing in the kitchen at your home in Galveston , cooking. She wanted to make sure we ate something. She always wanted to make sure we were happy and full. I remember most her caring and giving heart quite like your own. Philomena will be truly missed but will live forever in our hearts. Fly high Philomena. God received another Angel to his heavenly house. My heart feels your sorrow❤❤💔

    Dee Pullen
  15. Dear Pam, Corey, and the entire family. My sincere condolences on your loss. After hearing stories of your mother for 18 years I feel like I know her and she is part of my family. Although we know she is no longer suffering now the suffering lies on your shoulders. May God grant you the strength you need to get through such a trying time. Just remember she had an amazing life. lived to be 90 years old and raised a wonderful family. May she rest in peace and her memory be Eternal. My love to you all

    Michelle Khawaja

    Michelle Khawaja

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